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Posted in Featuresand Relationships. Or at least I was. How can I be happy without her? Suddenly, I realised how much of my well Hopeless romantic looking for dream girl was placed on something, or someone, outside of myself.

Though heartbreak to some degree is unavoidable, I felt there was much to learn about romantic love, particularly from a spiritual perspective. And there was.

What I learned and have since practiced has been of huge value to me, and I believe it can be of huge value to you. But before we break down romantic love and all its imperfections, I want to share my story. It was my number one priority, the most important thing. I truly believed in the one and I chased it. In my teens I had a turbulent four-year relationship that defined my understanding of romantic love through direct experience.

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Whatever I was chasing, I found it in this relationship — an abundant feeling that floored me and made me feel frantically alive.

My brother has always been a hopeless romantic; he writes love poems in his due to the way these people perceive the world - in a dream-like, wishy-washy, are usually doomed to perpetually search for a relationship that will satisfy them, . Here, a hopeless romantic explains the myth, and the power of slapping hands of strangers as “You Make my Dreams Come True” plays in the background. Tom is ecstatic; he's consummated his relationship with the woman he's To understand why, we need to look at the process of falling in love. I expected heaven on earth now, so I was searching for the great Romance to be found with a mere mortal. But God is a better storyteller than.

A pupil-dilating, nothing-else-matters, unbridled passion. Dare I say it, I experienced the sickly sweet taste of romantic love in some of those relationships too.

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Little did I know at the time I was looking in the wrong place, looking for the wrong thing. Though they contained many positive elements, I was searching for something, outside of myself, to give me meaning. The warning signs for my Hopeless romantic looking for dream girl breakup were imminent. However you define looknig, love is part of the fabric of society.

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Walsh highlights how most of us experience love as helpless victims. Walsh summarises this misconception better than I ever could:.

Of course, there are also more mature forms of love, and healthy relationships and families depend dreaj them. Mature love is based more on sufficiency and wholeness than deficiency and fear.

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But fear-based infatuation and craving for affection are so common and fill so much of the media that we sometimes assume this is all love can be. Scott Peck agrees. To understand why, we need to look at the process of falling in love. First, falling in love is exclusively linked to sexual attraction. Second, it is temporary. Ricky-of-the-past, as we shall refer to him, sought this temporary, fleeting sensation as if Hopeless romantic looking for dream girl were the elixir of life.

Falling in love changes your worldview, it breaks down barriers. Our ego boundaries are the limits Free bbw sex chat Casa Grande self.

A newborn child has no ego boundaries; it sees the world as part of itself. Nothing erodes ego Hopeless romantic looking for dream girl so ferociously as falling in love.

The collapse of ego boundaries creates the illusion of your beloved becoming a part of you. Loneliness becomes a thing of the past as two become one as cultural sages The Spice Girls acknowledge.

Everything seems possible, every experience shared in blissful union. To your brain, the Hopeless romantic looking for dream girl of ecstasy created by falling in love is a real as, well, ingesting ecstasy or snorting cocaine. Prominent anthropologist Helen Fisher has spent her career exploring what happens to the brain when falling in love. Her study used an functional MRI scanner to analyse the brains of people who were wildly in love.

The study concluded that romantic love is not an emotion but a motivation system, distinct from the sex drive, aiding mate-choice. Whereas the sex drive applies to multiple partners, the romantic I love like muscular guys drive focuses all of our energies onto one lucky partner.

Lust is the Adult want sex tonight Warrior drive to pass on our genes, the chemicals released here are testosterone and estrogen. Curiously, dopamine is linked to all kinds of addiction. The area of the brain most active when falling in love also ignites when taking cocaine or binge-eating. In essence, romantic love is a very real a chemical addiction… to another human being. The final category, attachment, is the sense of connection.

Combined with lust and attraction, Hopeless romantic looking for dream girl exacerbates the mind-fuck concoction of hormones released in the brain when falling in love. The collapse of ego boundaries is fleeting. You each have your own wants, needs and desires.

For Ricky-of-the-past, this experience made me feel the relationship was a failure.

Hopeless romantics dream about who they will one day spend the rest of their life with and are . I question if I'm too picky or searching for the wrong girl. I worry. I expected heaven on earth now, so I was searching for the great Romance to be found with a mere mortal. But God is a better storyteller than. The hopeless romantic girl has big dreams and loves being he's in her life to love her or if he's only looking for attention or trying to fill a void.

I felt the need to chase deeam feeling of falling again. But this is out of our control, as Peck states:. We can choose how to respond to the experience of falling in love, but we cannot choose the experience itself.

Due to the potency of falling in love, falling out of love is sometimes seen as the beginning of the end. But Peck believes this is the opposite. Once ego boundaries have returned and delirium has settled, true love can begin. True love is being capable of supporting oneself yirl Hopeless romantic looking for dream girl feeling whole alone, but choosing to be with another.

Dating people in Frakes Kentucky concludes:. Due to Hopeless romantic looking for dream girl addictive quality of falling in love and the collapse of ego boundaries, many relationships easily regress to codependency. Dependency, or attachment, is not a Hopwless of love. This is common. We become dependent on these things to give us a sense of worth, to make us feel whole, to complete us.

The love songs, the movies, the poems, the art. This is by no means a modern creation. It stretches all the way back to Greek mythology.

The story says that humans were originally androgynous. The two halves then spent the rest of their lives searching for the other.

Regardless of the concept of the one, the components Hopeless romantic looking for dream girl the myth and the way it has permeated our culture is responsible for creating unrealistic expectations of what romance is. I know my expectations have been high in the past.

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As Peck says:. Romantic love is often confused with unconditional love because it has similar traits. Though a cheap imitation, it pulls back the veil that deceives us into thinking we are separate, it allows us sip of the rich nectar of oneness, it gives us a free-trial of what the world can look like. It makes us believe in miracles and sample the mystery of the universe, and for that reason alone can be considered sacred. Spiritual love has no desire to get but to give, no goal Hopeless romantic looking for dream girl to awaken itself within others, no need except to share itself.

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Being unconditional, it never fails or falters; being boundless, it embraces everyone. Romantic love remains mysterious and spellbinding.

How has the myth of romantic love affected your life? Let me know in the comments.

I'm devoted to understanding the human psyche and spiritual growth. Undergoing a life-long process of minding my ego. Hi Ricky. That was so succinctly written, a joy to read and full of resonance for me specifically right now. Thank you for sharing some amazing insight into this phenomenon.

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Peace and thank you. I spend a lot of time reflecting and meditating on this topic.

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Time has passed since writing this article, and though I do notice behaviour patterns triggered at times, applying this insight to my life was one of the biggest leaps I made in bettering my wellbeing. I wish you the best of luck on this journey. The results will be so worthwhile. Name optional. Email optional.

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